Give yourself some time and space to get away from the expectations, the conversations, the noise, the media, and the pressure. Take some time each day to go for a long walk and think. Plant yourself on a park bench and look. Take a long, thoughtful road trip. Whatever you do, move away from anything that distracts you from contemplating your life and where you want it to go. In solitude, you should feel independent and self-sufficient, not lonely, needy or afraid.
Solitude is a time for rejuvenation and utter peace and it is within simplicity that we gain serenity. Be good to yourself, as this is a liberating part of our overall existence.
The Positive Pear 